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I grew up my entire life always being enriched with wondrous virtues and instruction. Things like:<\/p>\n

“Trust in the Lord and He will never fail you”<\/p>\n

“You need to be saved in order to make Heaven your home”<\/p>\n

“Ask Jesus to forgive you for your sins”<\/p>\n

“Hold on through the storm and God will not leave you”<\/p>\n

“When no one else will help encourage yourself”<\/p>\n

I believed those words\u00a0from all of those whom spoke these to me that they meant well and spoke it from a good place in their heart. In fact, I have even clung to the encouragement and listened to the instruction that I was told. However I cannot help but feel like that in the day I live in that something feels different than before. The many voices that I use to hear deliver such phrases are declining and I find myself looking inside my soul for strength now more than ever. It made me think, “Is this the way it’s supposed to be? Is it like riding a bike and once you’re off you no longer need that encouragement and kind push?”<\/p>\n

At first I thought, “Yeah that’s got to be it. I’m just not praying and working hard enough or I would obviously see what I’ve been told my whole life”. And then after months and months of more decline (almost to silence) I then stood exhausted from all the effort and began to question myself in my feverish pursuit of keeping the bar that I had been told to hold my whole life up completely on my own. Thanks be to God somehow I came through what would have probably broke others down to loneliness and depression. When my pride wanted me to just write everyone off that had seemingly forsaken me the spirit of the Lord quickened me and began to teach me about something I had never realized before.<\/p>\n

My revelation was simply this: we all need a spotter from time to time, but sometimes we are to be the spotter when others cannot carry their own load. It put me in the mind of this imagery:<\/p>\n

\"spotting\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Then I recalled this scripture:<\/p>\n

Romans 15:1\u00a0<\/span><\/h1>\n

1\u00a0<\/span>We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

Powerful, right?! This helps me to realize that I am not to carry everything alone but I am not to always expect others to run to me either. Until we can learn to help each other as Christ instructed (love our neighbors as ourself) than we are trying to selfishly lift our own weights and demand the world to be our spot.<\/p>\n

So what do you do when you cannot seem to carry your own weight? What do we do when no one steps up to help us in a time of weakness?<\/p>\n

1) First of all, stop screaming for help from other people<\/strong>. Chances are if no one has come to your aid yet that God has not received your full trust and surrender. Have you confessed to God your shortcomings and the pains and hurts of your life that seem to keep you down. This heavy load we willingly carry needs to be the first thing we get rid of. Cleansing your soul is necessary. Repenting sincerely of things will help you to get up and feel lighter before you make the first effort towards anything.<\/p>\n

2) Secondly, stop trying to lift a weight that you cannot carry without God’s help<\/strong>. We cannot continue to try to get to the mountain top without seeing that it takes thousands of steps before we hit the pinnacle. Daily prayer and thanksgiving opens the doorway of your heart to be humbled and at peace with things you cannot change. It also helps you to gain clarity on things that are making it harder for you than it should be.<\/p>\n

3) Thirdly, make an effort that you feel like you can handle<\/strong>. Get to a church weekly, read some scripture everyday (you do not have to put yourself to sleep to have a meaningful bible study), pray for a few minutes a couple times a day, listen to some praise and worship at some point and allow meditation toward God, and keep a positive attitude even in the face of adversity. God would have you to walk simple steps of faith than to try and run with so many complexities.<\/p>\n

4) Fourth, once you begin to establish your personal connection to God begin to challenge yourself<\/strong>. Step out of your comfort zone every now and then. Praise him a little more than normal. Pray a few minutes longer than normal. Help someone like you would help yourself. For as we challenge ourselves we find that this is where we begin to build strength and get stronger. And as you begin to step out by faith in these moments when you would be afraid God will help you and spot you initially with an overwhelming move of his presence and favor all about you.<\/p>\n

5) Finally, once you realize that you can handle some things then begin to look for situations and individuals that you know you can lend a hand too<\/strong>. The bible talks of it being far better to give than receive. I have found that I gain just as much strength helping someone else learn to lift and carry the burdens of life than I do always just yelling for help and never trying.<\/p>\n

Remember: we can lift a stronger amount of weight together than if we tried to do it separately on our own. Help others that you know that you can and remember that as you help them it will build you up to be stronger. And as we lead by example I hope and pray that this decline in encouragement begins to cease and that we return to the sincere compassion of Christ.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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